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“If one family out of every four churches in the U.S. would adopt a child, there would be no more orphans in the United States.”

 

Elizabeth Styffe, Director of the Orphan Care Initiative at Saddleback Church, recently spoke with Ruth Bell Olsson, from Bethany Christian Services during their "Every Child" podcast, about the orphan crisis facing our world today and how the global Church can be equipped to end this crisis by learning about God’s heart for the orphan.

 

“Not every believer needs to adopt, but every believer needs to say, ‘What can I do to end the orphan crisis?’” Elizabeth says that the Church is the only entity that cares for people from cradle to grave and that God has called each of us to care for the orphan: “Every night, including tonight, children are going to bed praying what my children say they prayed. Every night they prayed for a mom and dad…It’s not overly dramatic, it’s not overly emotional, this is real as it gets. This is reality.”

 

The local church can end the orphan crisis by helping children remain in family, reunite with family, or regain a family of their own through adoption. Elizabeth notes, “This is about doing for a child physically what God has done for us spiritually.”

 

Listen to the full podcast here


If you are interested in becoming involved with the Orphan Care Initiative, email orphans@saddleback.com or call 949-609-8555.

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Karen and Marv Quinn are ordinary Saddleback Church members who took a daring faith step to travel on an Orphan Care PEACE trip to Rwanda. What they saw of the people, country, and the power of the local church changed their worldview, and we asked them to share their experiences in their own words:

 

A PEACE trip to Rwanda in some ways feels like a trip back in time to first century Christianity. The entire country in unashamed about being on fire for Christ. There is an unspoken dignity among the people and a palpable presence of the local church everywhere.

 

Leaving Kigali we traveled to the western province and the city of Kibuye. Rwanda is the country of a thousand hills and we must have passed by 500 of them on our three hour drive there.

 

We had the privilege of meeting with a pastor who leads a rural church in this farming sector of Rwanda. His church has implemented the Orphan Care Initiative in a way that so reflects his congregation. We were greeted with worship and the clamoring of loving children who could not wait to sit next to us. The pastor spoke about how families in his church were adopting orphans, attending parenting classes and forming savings groups. Four of his members shared their testimonies, their love for their church, their love for the pastor, and their dependence upon Christ. One lady had overcome alcohol, accepted Christ, then found her self- worth in Jesus and not in the bottle. Once healthy, she had gone on to adopt and to participate in a savings group. Another had adopted, added to her own biological family, participated in a savings group and with that money had bought a pig because pigs reproduce quickly. Investing in livestock was a ticket out of poverty. Her son is now completing his university education. All four church members had adopted and given orphaned children loving mommies and daddies. They all proudly held up their savings books because savings groups had pulled them out of poverty. It was beautiful to see how Orphan Care initiative and Savings Groups Initiative work hand in hand to help families, with the church being the center of their success.

 

We followed the pastor to a home visit whereby he regularly visits his members who have adopted to check in on the family and the welfare of the children. Five of us were invited in to this humble home with a dirt floor, mud construction and love that just exuded. The husband was working and the wife invited us in to share her testimony and to minister to us with her remarkable story. Years ago she and a man in her village found a seven month old abandoned baby girl and brought her to the local orphanage. They kept thinking about the baby all the time, and their love for her prompted them to get married and then to adopt her. She is their oldest child is now 12 years old. Since that time, the mother and her husband had two biological boys. When we asked her daughter about school she beamed and the pastor praised her on how much hard work she puts into her learning. The family had joined a savings group, bought a cow and some chickens, and added onto their one room home. The church is a family to families who adopt, orphanages are closing, children are being raised in loving families and the church is the hub of it all.

 

We witnessed the PEACE Plan in action.

 

If you are interested in serving on an Orphan Care PEACE trip, and assisting the local church in getting children out of orphanages and into families, email us at ophans@saddleback.com
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When Amerita learned from her local church that there were children in her community who needed loving families, she took a step of faith and made the courageous decision to adopt 13-year-old Felix from the orphanage. One year later, Felix now enjoys life as a much-loved son and spends his days playing with his three siblings - Claude (also age 13), Diane (10), and Fifi (8).

Amerita is excited to share via video all she has been able to do to care for her growing family through the generosity of her local church and Orphan Care Sponsorship.


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WATCH THIS VIDEO to hear how sponsorship has impacted her family and her ability to care for her new son.

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  • Orphan Care PEACE Teams have been helping raise up adoptive families and train lay social workers in Rwanda all summer! You and your family can go to Rwanda to be apart of the amazing transformation God is doing – email orphans@saddleback.comfor more information.
  • Two new churches in Kigali, Rwanda’s capital city, have taken an important first step in receiving training on God’s Heart for the Orphan and starting Orphan Care ministries.

To begin sponsoring a family like Amerita's, visit Saddleback.com/Sponsorship.

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Adapted from a blog that originally appeared on www.EmpoweredtoConnect.org

There are no perfect parents, only growing parents. When parents make mistakes it can actually be healthy for both them and their children, so long as parents are quick to repair the ruptured connection. This is certainly good news, given that all parents are prone to their fair share of mistakes.

So here’s a challenge for all parents — let’s practice making mistakes with our children (not intentionally, of course) and repairing them so that we and our children can grow and learn, and our connection can be strengthened. Here’s how it works:

Choose a two to three day period when you will be with your child for most, if not all, of the waking hours in the day. Over the course of these days, be mindful to repair each and every mistake you make when interacting with your child. Whether you lose your temper, raise your voice, speak sarcastically, become frustrated, cut them off, fail to give them voice, ignore them, hurt their feelings…the list could go on. Regardless of whether the mistake is big or small, intentional or unintentional, be sure to quickly, humbly, and sincerely repair each and every mistake you make.

As you do this, make a mental note of (or actually write down) any observations that stand out, particularly in terms of your own feelings and your child’s response (to both your mistake and your repair). Also make a note of any changes in your relationship with your child that you witness throughout the course of this time. We have a hunch that by practicing making mistakes and repairing them, your relationship with your child will grow.

For more on the importance of parents repairing their mistakes, watch this video featuring Dr. Karyn Purvis.

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More than 1 billion children—half of all the children in the world—are victims of violence every year, according to data just released by the Center for Disease Control (CDC) Division of Violence Prevention.  That amounts to 2 of every 3 girls and 3 of every 4 boys globally who experience violence in childhood.

 

To understand the nature of this violence, the CDC’s Violence against Children Surveys (VACS) works to measure physical, emotional, and sexual violence against girls and boys through surveys that have been completed in five countries, and are underway in nine more. The surveys have highlighted the tragic correlation between exposure to childhood sexual violence and the increase in negative health conditions, including HIV and AIDS.


In each of the five countries studied – Haiti, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Tanzania, and Swaziland – more than 1 in 4 girls experienced sexual violence. In one country surveyed, those that experienced sexual violence were 3.7 times more likely to be infected with sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. 

In addition to these negative outcomes, children who experience violence are at greater risk for destructive yet preventable consequences, including chronic diseases, crime and drug abuse, as well as serious mental health problems.

 

The CDC has composed a group of complementary strategies they believe are critical components for preventing violence against children. These strategies – termed THRIVES - highlight the need for mobilizing multiple sectors of the community. The THRIVES strategy includes: Training in parenting, Household and economic strengthening, Reduced violence through protective policies, Improved services, Values and norms that protect children, Education and life skills, and Surveillance and evaluation. These focus areas illustrate that churches have a key role to play in this important issue given that in many communities they are the voice of influence in areas such as values toward children, parenting, and finances.

 

To learn how you can participate in an Orphan Care PEACE trip to Rwanda and help train local churches in parenting and getting children out of orphanages and into the care of families, email orphans@saddleback.com or call the Orphan Care Initiative at 949-609-8555.