This article, written by Elizabeth Styffe, Global Director of the Orphan Care Initiative, originally appeared in Ministry Today Magazine.
adoption plan provides the church with the perfect ministry model
At the heart
of orphan care at Saddleback Church is the desire to end the orphan crisis. We
believe every child deserves a loving, lasting, legal, lifelong family of their
own—and we believe this is doable. If every church empowered their members to
care for orphans in ways that helped and didn’t hurt, the orphan crisis could
though there are still more than 163 million orphans and vulnerable children in
the world today, little has been done yet to help orphans stop being
orphans. As a culture, we’ve spent years trying to put Band-Aids on the
orphanage institution. But children need more than food, shelter, clothing and
education. We don’t want children to just survive, but to thrive—and children
thrive in family.
we began asking ourselves, “How can we end the orphan crisis, and is there
something every church can do?” Here are what we believe are the answers to
being orphans when they become sons and daughters. At Saddleback, we’ve been
challenged to change everything about how we care for orphans and how we engage
members to care. We have two goals: (1) to end the orphan crisis; and (2) to
get every member on mission, caring for orphans locally and globally by helping
them find a family of their own.
God’s remedy for orphanhood. The church doing for orphans what God has done for
us is His solution. Because of this, we believe that if more Christians would
do physically for orphans what God has done spiritually for us, the orphan
crisis would be solved.
When we were
orphans, God adopted us. Scripture teaches that the reason God made the world
was so He could adopt (see Eph. 1:4-6). Our triune God, who needed nothing but
wanted a family of His own, allows us through the blood of His Son to share in
the rich communion as His sons and daughters (see Eph. 1). When God adopted us,
He made us part of His permanent family, so we would no longer be orphans. Even
though we were not His bloodline, He grafted us in through adoption, giving us
permanent security and a family, and meeting our need to belong. His adoption
of us is a legal process that cost Him everything. It gives us an inheritance
and the right to call Him Abba, or “Father” (see Gal. 4, Rom. 8). As a
result, at Saddleback we are in the work of reconciling people to God through
adoption (spiritual adoption), and helping children stay in their families, be
reunited with their families or find a new family through adoption (physical
There are 163
million children at risk in the world today but 2.4 billion people who claim
the name of Jesus. This means the solution for every child is a church where
all the members are caring about orphans. Churches can help orphans find a new
family through adoption. They can help them remain in their current family if
it is safe. Or they can help them reunite with their families if they are
separated (since most children in orphanages have families in the communities
but need the church to help the family become safe, healthy, and financially
and emotionally ready to care).
Care Initiative at Saddleback empowers ordinary believers to help orphans and
vulnerable children locally and globally, and it also focuses on helping
children find families. On the local level, this could mean doing several
things: volunteering to serve children recently removed from their home,
helping with sessions for people thinking about adoption, giving financially to
someone who is adopting, or caring for newly adopted children while their
families gain support. Even if you can’t adopt (and not everyone should), you
can help someone who is adopting.
changed what Saddleback does cross-culturally. We send teams to help churches
start orphan ministries that provide permanent, legal, lifelong families for
children. We don’t invest in group homes or orphanages or other often harmful substitutes
We help local
churches and governments find and equip families for adoption. The emphasis is
on solving the orphan crisis through adoption. We’re not talking about
Americans adopting (although the very small and declining number of adoptions
last year in the U.S. is evidence that more people should). Instead, this is
about helping churches all over the world legally adopt children, doing what’s
best for a child and ending the orphan crisis.
Every Church Can Do
So what can
you do to help eradicate such a global problem? Here are six things every
church (including yours!) can use to launch an orphan-care ministry:
Open your heart to God’s heart for the
Recognize your responsibility to find
Prevent children from being orphaned.
Help orphans in ways that move them out of
Affirm loving, legal and lasting families
by preservation, reunification, or adoption.
Never forget the local church is key.
approach to orphan care has changed dramatically from what it once was. Let’s
continue moving closer to God’s heart for adoption, as found in His Word. He’s given
us the perfect ministry model, so let’s embrace it. By working together, churches
can end the current worldwide orphan crisis.
printed in Ministry Today Magazine)
Children In Families First (CHIFF), a bipartisan bill that would
prioritize family as a key element of U.S. foreign policy and help streamline
international adoptions, is hosting a Tweet-Up today – and your voice matters!
goal is to get the word out and influence members of Congress who will be
voting on the bill. Help raise awareness for this important bill that could help orphans around the world find family and change the face of international adoption in America by tweeting your support and sharing its
importance with your followers!
Please check out the CHIFF petition, sign it, and share to
your friends on social media
You can also learn more about the bill in this article about
CHIFF in the Christian Post: Sen. Mary Landrieu Asks Christians to #SupportCHIFF and Aid Orphans in Crisis (VIDEO INTERVIEW)
There is still a long battle ahead for this important piece
of legislation, but with your help we can help children get into families much
faster! Visit the CHIFF page at childreninfamiliesfirst.org to learn how you
can get involved. You can also follow CHIFF on Twitter and like their Facebook page to keep up with all the updates.
Ernie and Pat are two ordinary
members of Saddleback who have chosen to make an extraordinary difference by
caring about orphans. Adoptive and foster parents, they have seen first hand
the difference that family makes in the life of a child who has been deprived
of a mom and dad. Below, Ernie shares a bit of his wife’s own remarkable
adoption story – a miracle dating back to World War Two in Germany.
In 1947 post war Germany, a mother named Alma Mosher, a
military wife lived in Germany as part of the US Occupational Forces. Alma had
two biological sons, but her heart still longed for a daughter.
In a German orphanage, Alma found a six month old, brown-eyed
little girl whose parents had thrown her away because she wasn’t the
boy-warrior they wanted.
She picked up this precious baby girl, so tiny and
underweight, and she knew that it was God’s plan for her to adopt her. Then the
true battle started.
The politics in Germany and the rights of American GI’s and
their families were not yet established. Alma refused to leave the country
without the baby girl in her arms. After months of negotiations, Baby Pat
officially became Alma’s daughter, and the first baby adopted in post-WWII
Germany by an American GI. Alma’s refusal to accept a negative answer opened
the door for adoption in Germany.
Forty years later, Pat lives in Lake Forest, CA and attends
Saddleback Church. She is married with two boys, and like her mother, feels
God’s call to help a little girl just like she was helped long ago. Accepting
God’s call, Pat became a foster parent to three girls: Jessica, Kimberly, and
Pat felt God’s call to foster and readily accepted, but she
didn’t know the difficulty it would bring her; the same difficulty her mother
faced years ago. Pat advocated for her girls – to protect them and to give them
a better life. All three girls had come from difficult and traumatic
situations, and needed the healing love of a family. Despite the difficulties,
Pat’s love for her girls only grew with her desire to battle for their care and
There is a story for each of these little girls that would
fill a thousand novels, but the bigger story is how the love of a mom, who
wouldn’t give up despite the hard circumstances, made a difference in the world
more than a generation later.
Jessica is now a 27 year old woman living in Boston, now
reunited with her birth mother. But her desire to find her birth mother did not
alienate her birth family, it only added members to her already loving family.
Elizabeth, now 28 years old, was adopted by a family in Los
Kimberly, abandoned at birth in a Tustin Hospital, is now
our adopted daughter and a beautiful 25 year old woman, attending college so
she can become a psychologist to help others with the same life experiences she
But the impact of the love of a mother doesn’t stop with
helping orphaned children; there are consequences to their family members
inspired by the actions of their mom. David, our oldest son, is a business man
in Orange Count. Tim, our youngest son, is a pediatric cardiologist who spent
ten days last Christmas with a medical team in Ethiopia and repaired the hearts
of 38 children.
Pat and I are now spending time working with the Local
Orphan Care Initiative here at Saddleback Church to grow a coalition of
churches and Orange County Social Services to find a loving home for every
orphan in Orange County and to spread that model across the country.
If it wasn’t for the love of Pat’s mother at the end of
WWII, who fought for and adopted one brown-eyed baby girl, there wouldn’t be
our marriage of 46 years, a business man making a difference for immigrant
families, a cardiologist working on baby’s hearts, an adopted little girl
studying to help others work through their emotional pain, and a senior couple
now working on the Global Orphan Care Initiative at Saddleback Church.
The love of a mother can change the world one life at a
time. Together with God, you don’t need to start a revolution to make a
difference; loving one lonely child at a time can change the world, just like
Alma and Pat changed the lives of the orphaned children around them.
To get connected to Orphan Care at Saddleback, join us this Sunday from 4-6pm in the Refinery to hear the variety of opportunities available for you to make a difference in the life of an orphan!
If you would like information on how your family can adopt or foster a child, join us at “Thinking About Adoption or Foster Care” Wednesday June 4th from
6:30-8:30pm, or call the Orphan Care Line at 949-609-8555.
This month marks 20 years since the genocide in Rwanda that devastated the country. All over Rwanda, local churches are remembering those lost, while also celebrating how far God has brought the country since that time.
Pastor Leonidas is keenly aware of the change that transformed the country, as leader of a church in the Karongi District of the Western Province, an area hardest hit by the genocide. His church is a source of life and hope for his community, and many families in his congregation have experienced the transforming impact of PEACE Plan programs, including Orphan Sponsorship.
One of his church members, Elena, is a prime example of the power of the PEACE Plan coming together with the local church and the generosity of sponsorship donors to create change. Elena is a single mother of eight children. Three of the children she took into her home when her neighbor developed AIDS and became too sick to care for them.
Elena’s life was in shambles until she attended Pastor Leonidas’ church, which was going through the Purpose Driven Life study. Elena found hope and learned that God had a purpose for her life. Through the PEACE Plan, she learned how to care for her community. She joined a savings group and developed the heart to take in her neighbor’s children, who would have ended up in an orphanage without her care. Her new life in Christ, her local church, and the support of the Orphan Sponsorship Program gave her the confidence and resources to take additional children into her home. Through the money management skills she learned in her savings group, Elena was able to use her resources well, and she has now started a thriving new business which allows her to provide more for her children.
To begin sponsoring a family in Rwanda to take in a child from the orphanage, click here.
Click below to WATCH Pastor Leonidas and Elena’s stories in their own words:
Looking to get connected to Orphan Care at Saddleback Church? May and June are action-packed with opportunities to learn more and serve!
Check out the variety of opportunities below, and feel free to let us know if you have any questions! (call us at 949-609-8555 or email email@example.com)
Thinking About Adoption & Foster Care
Have you considered adopting or fostering, but aren’t sure how to get started? This is the place for you! Families from our church who have adopted and fostered share helpful overviews and answer your questions in a no-pressure environment.
We have three different nights for you to catch the seminar and get your questions answered:
Monday May 12th – 7-9pm in MO2 (the small portable office on the Lake Forest campus)
Thursday, May 15th – 7-9pm in Room 404 (in the portable classrooms across from Tent 1)
Wednesday, June 4th – 6:30-8:30pm in MO2 (the small portable office on the Lake Forest campus)
SPECIAL EVENT with Milan & Kay Yerkovich, authors of How We Love
Healthy attachment is the key to great families, and great adoptive and foster parenting. Using attachment theory, experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich have created the tools to take your relationships to the next level. Come learn your attachment style, how to grow your marriage, and take your parenting to the next level at this unique event.
Saturday, June 21st – 9am – 12pm The Plaza Room, Lake Forest Campus
Register HERE: http://saddleback.com/event/11637464971/event
Orphan Care Volunteer Gathering
Our monthly orphan care volunteer gathering is a great opportunity to hear all that is going on locally and globally with orphan care, and get plugged in to serving opportunities! Connect with others in our ministry with a heart to make a difference in the global orphan care crisis.
Sunday, June 1st – 4-6pm in the upstairs Refinery classroom
Global Orphan Care Skills Training
You can make a global impact! In this training, you will learn how to empty orphanages and help orphaned children find their forever families. If you are considering going on a PEACE trip, or just want to know more, join us for skills training!
Saturday, June 14th – 8:30am – 12:00pm in Tent 2
Local Orphan Care Orientation
If you have a heart to serve orphaned children here in our own community, come to the local orphan care orientation to hear about the different opportunities, and how you can make a difference in the life of a foster child or adoptive family! Email firstname.lastname@example.org for more information.
Tuesday, May 13th – 7-9pm in the Plaza Room
Questions? Email email@example.com or call 949-609-8555.