What can two young women of Orange County without education in
social work or experience as parents do to help churches in Rwanda care for
orphans and vulnerable children? That was the question Lauren Franco and Amanda
Schaefer asked themselves as they stepped out in faith on a recent Orphan Care
PEACE trip to Rwanda. They discovered the only qualification needed to make a
difference is being called by God. In this article originally posted by Saddleback Women, Lauren and Amanda discuss
their unique experiences as the youngest women on their all women PEACE trip to
Rwanda and the lessons they learned about how God qualifies those who are
How do you know the best way to invest your life when the world
says you are too young to make a difference? As the youngest members of the
Women’s team taking a PEACE trip to Rwanda, Lauren Franco and Amanda Schaefer
wrestle with their inadequacies.
“Beth Schwartz, Women's Minister,
assembled a fantastic team of 17 women leaders for this adventure. I’d never
been on a PEACE trip before,” explains Lauren, “and worried my youth might be a deterrent to the team. I had no
teaching experience. No years of wisdom and skill to guide me. How could I
possibly spread hope, encouragement and solidarity to the Rwandan people?”
As Millennials, both Amanda and Lauren also knew they had to
overcome the poor reputation their generation garners. “With social media, we are on our phones
24/7. Sometimes people think we have the world at our fingertips, yet we lack
direction,” Amanda says. “It
was incredible to be mentored by the women in our group who created a nurturing
community ripe for growth. Despite the age differences, everyone in our group
shared the same values. All of us wanted to infuse Christ into the lives of the
Rwandan people. Since the genocide in 1994, the country has gone through so
much, but we were completely blown away by the abundant forgiveness and love
the Rwandan people have for their neighbors, church and country.”
“I carried a
deep apprehension of never being able to measure up to the women in the group.
My place at the table didn’t seem real – the anxiety about my age was driven by
fear. In that outbreak of insecurity, I checked my heart to find the source of
my fear,” Lauren explains. “My
darkest day ended in tears knowing I had to teach a devotional the very next
day. With fear, I open my Bible. God led me to the story of Mary, the mother of
Jesus and pointed out Mary’s age. She wasn’t more than a teenager and yet God
chose her for possibly the most honoring task of all – to be the carrier,
nurturer and mother of Christ.” Knowing obedience, not age, was more important
to God provided a turning point for Lauren and the group’s younger women.
Lauren continues, “I
was an average churchgoer before this trip. I felt God calling me to go and
wanted to be obedient.” Amanda adds,
“The PEACE Plan’s beauty
is that it is not about us or what Saddleback can do, but all about the light
being shed on the churches and pastors in Rwanda, making them the heroes, not
Despite the devastation and heartache Rwanda has endured, it is
now an example to the world. The wreckage and brokenness of the country have
been transformed into the most forgiving and joyful body the group had ever
seen. “Grace seeps into every
crevice of this country and should push us to set aside denomination, take up
unity, let go of differences to take on love, and give our pain to God and take
on joy instead,” says Lauren.
Amanda echoes Lauren’s
beliefs. “I was heartbroken
seeing the street kids living in homelessness. Yet the local church cares for
them. Some parts of the world lack many things: material comforts, medicine,
education, electricity. Even in these situations, in this particular country
The team experienced situations very different from their
comfortable lives in Orange County. “We visited heart-wrenching memorials to genocide victims. Everyone
in our group was deeply affected by that. It was also distressing to meet girls
forced into the sex trade or who became drug dealers because that was the only
way they could support themselves,” Lauren explains.
God’s light overpowered all the darkness. Amanda explains: “It was uplifting to witness the
church in action. Whether in the capital of Kigali or Kibuye, a rural city, the
church is working to ease the pain of HIV/AIDs patients, closing down
orphanages and reaching out with God’s love to those who suffered the gravest
inhumanities. In one town, we participated in Umuganda, a service day. The goal
was to build a gutter to prevent flooding during heavy rains. The entire
community shared a passion for this, desiring to be unified, working together,
despite differences to build a better city.”
Amanda continues, “We
taught The Purpose Driven Church, but most were already living it. Faith is a
living action. Their faithfulness to God is inspiring. Rwandans are teaching
each other and the world, you can’t snuff out hope, you can’t smother it. Hope
exists because Christ came to this earth.”
Amanda and Lauren encourage other women to step out of their
comfort zones to participate on a PEACE trip. Both agree their most profound
learning was a renewed trust in God. “He met us every time we questioned ourselves. He provided love by
surrounding us with a strong, safe community of Saddleback women,” Amanda clarifies. “He gave us a new perspective on our
blessings. His light will continue to burn when all the other lights go out. We
hold more strongly to his hope because we were warmed in places we didn’t even
know had grown cold.”
going on a PEACE trip. Be willing to be uncomfortable,” says Amanda. “Ask God, ‘Where do you want me to
go? I’m ready to go where you are leading.’” Lauren adds, “Maybe he isn’t leading you to go on a trip
now. For example, while financial support is needed, the young moms on our trip
were encouraged by those in Orange County who cooked family meals, drove their
kids to practice, cleaned their homes or simply prayed. Invite God into your
plans. He will respond. You will be forever changed by abandoning your fear and
placing your trust in God.”
Blog re-posted from Saddleback Women. Check out the original blog post and more from Saddleback Women here.
God can use your unique skills and passions on an Orphan Care PEACE trip! Email email@example.com
or call 949-609-8555 for more information.
Something miraculous is
occurring throughout Rwanda. Orphanages once full of children are being shut
down as children are being adopted into families of their own. These children
who have experienced great trauma and loss require a greater level of connection
and care from their parents and families. To meet this need, local churches
throughout Rwanda are now sharing the life-changing tools and training of
Trust-Based Relational Interventions (TBRI).
Researched and developed
at Texas Christian University, the skills taught through TBRI have enabled
adoptive families to connect with their children in healing ways, fostered
healthy reunification of families, and encouraged families at risk of
separation. Parents are being equipped and supported by their churches to build
healthy connections with their children. Take a look at this video highlighting
the power of transformation TBRI has had in local churches throughout Rwanda!
Are you interested in helping equip more churches in Rwanda
with the life-changing tools of TBRI? You can serve on an Orphan Care PEACE
trip and support the local church in emptying orphanages and adopting children.
or call 949-609-8555.
In October 2016, a group of women from Saddleback Church took a PEACE
trip to Rwanda to serve local churches in the areas of Orphan Care and HIV/AIDS.
Comprised of core women’s ministry leaders, the trip brought together women
ranging from college students and recent graduates, to young mothers and career
women, to grandmothers and great-grandmothers. Together, these women found that
their diverse hearts were weaved together by the common vision of empowering
the local churches of Rwanda and living out the Great Commission in their daily
Many of the women who served on this trip harbored deep
insecurities and questions as to whether God could use them in Rwanda. Whether
they felt too young, too old, too sensitive, too feminine, too inexperienced,
or too small in the kingdom, God met them in their doubts and empowered them to
serve His Church. As Lauren Franco, Women’s Communities intern and team member
stated, “The Great Commission isn't subject to one gender, or one age group.
It’s all of us. We’re all called to go to make disciples of all nations.” These
women discovered the truth that everyone can be used on a PEACE trip. No matter
what your background, family history, or experiences are, God can use you!
Take a look at this discussion about the HIV and Orphan Care
PEACE trip featuring several women who served on this trip as they discuss what
God taught them in the process:
Are you ready to take your next step of faith by going on a PEACE trip? Join us January 22nd at PEACE Practical on the Saddleback Lake Forest campus to learn more about Orphan Care and HIV ministries and how you can GO or support what our church is doing to live life on mission. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org or call 949-609-8555 with any questions!
The Karongi District of Western Rwanda is where the Orphan Care Initiative began the charge with local churches to get children out of orphanages and into loving, lasting families 3 years ago. In a country that did not have a word for “adoption” when deinstitutionalization began, so many families have stepped up to open their hearts and homes to children that there was no longer any need for the orphanages in their region. All three of the region’s orphanages, which were once home to hundreds of children, are now emptied – the abandoned dormitories now testaments to God’s amazing work in Rwanda through his church and the generosity of sponsorship donors like you!
The success is so profound that the Rwandan government has now asked the Orphan Care Initiative to play a larger leading role in 3 other regions of the country. This year, PEACE teams were mobilized to vision cast God’s heart for the orphan to local churches in these new areas, providing them with the training they need to reunite families and raise up families for adoption. The churches of Karongi are now a shining example to the rest of the nation, teaching their brothers and sisters what it looks like to offer radical love through adoption.
Orphan Care PEACE Teams Deliver the Very Best in Evidence-Based Adoptive Parent Training
Life in an orphanage leaves a legacy of trauma in the life of a child – emotional pain and learned behaviors that can only be healed in the arms of a permanent family. The adoptive families in Rwandan local churches are trained in the best practices of parenting children coming out of trauma – a set of unique transformative tools called Trust Based Relational Interventions (TBRI®), developed and tested at Texas Christian University’s Institute of Child Development.
Through a train the trainer model, local churches are equipped to not only empower families, but also empower skilled lay social workers to come alongside families as they bring home a child from the orphanage. This year, 79 members on 9 PEACE trips delivered this training in Rwanda.
The Orphan Care Initiative’s work in this field was recently recognized as Initiative founder Elizabeth Styffe was awarded the TCU Green Honors Chair for 2017.
Check out this video to watch how churches are putting TBRI into practice in Rwanda:
Thank you to those of you who gave so generously to Rwanda Sponsorship in 2016. To set up monthly giving for the new year, visit saddleback.com/sponsorship. Let’s help another region get to zero in 2017!
Is your family experiencing infertility? Find community and
hope with other couples walking the same journey at the Embracing Hope retreat
at Saddleback Church on Jan. 27-28!
Join couples like Phillip and Alex, a couple who found support, community, and healing through the church in the midst of their infertility story. They will be sharing their journey at the retreat, and you can hear a bit of their story below...
Embracing Hope is an overnight retreat for husbands and
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