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Posted by Katy Rose

Perhaps, like me, you’ve been tempted to worry for your children that adoption will affect them, especially in the long run. When I am tempted to fear this is my prayer:

 If something in them is ruined, may it be apathy. If they are disrupted, may it be for the plight of the orphan and the widow, the sick and the lonely, the refugee and the homeless. If this does, in fact, create baggage down the road, may they experience the peace that comes in unloading their burdens on the only One who can fully bear the weight. If they are uncomfortable, may they embrace the presence of the Spirit, our Comforter. If they are ever questioned or teased for the differences in their family, may the Spirit strengthen them in every way, and may the experience increase their compassion and empathy. In this Land of Opportunity, may they take every opportunity to show the mercy that they have been shown. I’m not advocating for a life riddled with uncertainty and inconsistency for our children. They need safe rhythms and security, and one of our primary roles is to protect them. But as we do, may we protect them from a life anesthetized by comforts that blind them to the needs of others. We are called to love and to live sacrificially. May we help them see there is a story bigger than their own. As we teach our children that Christ has done the monumental work of saving the world, may we never forget to show them how He invites us to join in the incremental work of loving our neighbor, even when it means disruption. Obedience leads ultimately to joy and freedom. He turns disruption into a gift.

Originally posted as The Gift of Disruption by Katy Rose Oct 20, 2015 on Kristen Welch’s blog wearethatfamily.com

If you would like information on how to begin your adoption or foster care journey, email us at orphans@saddleback.com or call the Orphan Care Initiative at 949-609-8555.



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